Tag: Psychosexual practice

  • When Sexual Behaviour Raises a Safeguarding Concern: A Therapist’s First Response

    When Sexual Behaviour Raises a Safeguarding Concern: A Therapist’s First Response

    Therapists can encounter disclosures, patterns of behaviour, or contextual information that raise questions about harm, safeguarding, and public protection. These conversations can evoke uncertainty, anxiety, and pressure to reach a quick conclusion.

    A good first response is neither to minimise a concern nor to make a forensic determination in the therapy room. It is to remain calm, clarify what is known, work within competence, seek appropriate support, and act where necessary to reduce the risk of harm.

    This guide is for qualified practitioners. It is not a risk-assessment tool, legal advice, or a substitute for supervision, local safeguarding procedures, specialist consultation, or emergency action.

    1. Respond calmly and explain the limits of confidentiality

    A client should be met with dignity and without sensationalism. This supports honest discussion and reduces the likelihood that shame will close down important information.

    At the same time, do not make promises of absolute confidentiality. If they have not already been explained, remind the client of the circumstances in which information may need to be shared—for example, where there is a serious concern about the safety of a child, an adult at risk, or another identifiable person.

    The precise threshold will depend on the setting, professional role, local policy, contract, and jurisdiction. When in doubt, seek advice promptly rather than attempting to manage the question alone.

    2. Clarify the information without filling gaps with assumptions

    Distinguish carefully between:

    • What the client has said
    • What you have directly observed
    • What you have been told by another source
    • What you do not yet know
    • Your clinical interpretation or concern

    Useful areas to clarify may include whether there is an immediate risk; whether there is current access to a child or adult at risk; coercion, threats, exploitation, or abuse; escalation in behaviour; online contexts; and any current involvement with safeguarding, criminal justice, health, or supervisory services.

    Curiosity is not the same as interrogation. The aim is to understand enough to make a proportionate and defensible decision about next steps, not to conduct an investigation beyond your role or competence.

    3. Consider immediate safety and safeguarding duties

    Where there is immediate danger, follow emergency procedures and your organisation’s safeguarding policy without delay.

    In England, local authorities have safeguarding duties where an adult has care and support needs, is experiencing or at risk of abuse or neglect, and is unable to protect themselves because of those needs. The statutory guidance also stresses multi-agency co-operation and the importance of preventing harm while promoting the adult’s wellbeing and involvement in decisions where possible.

    Safeguarding is not a single action or a label. It is a process of recognising concern, consulting appropriately, deciding what action is necessary, and recording why.

    4. Bring the concern to supervision and stay within competence

    A practitioner should not be left to carry a complex safeguarding or risk concern alone. Bring it promptly to clinical supervision, a designated safeguarding lead, or an appropriate senior colleague. Depending on the circumstances, this may include consultation with specialist services, an employer, professional body, local authority, or legal adviser.

    Therapeutic work may remain an important part of a person’s support. However, therapy should not become a substitute for necessary safeguarding, specialist assessment, or risk-management processes.

    “What is my clinical role here, what is outside it, and what needs to happen now to reduce the risk of harm?”

    5. Make a clear, contemporaneous record

    Record relevant information as soon as possible. A defensible record usually includes:

    • The information disclosed or observed
    • The context and any stated immediacy of concern
    • Consultation and advice obtained
    • The options considered
    • The action taken, or the reason no further action was taken
    • The rationale for the decision

    Good record-keeping does not eliminate uncertainty. It makes your reasoning, professional consultation, and actions accountable.

    Practice with care, not fear

    Work involving sexual behaviour, harmful sexual behaviour, abuse, or risk can be clinically and ethically demanding. It requires practitioners to avoid two unhelpful extremes: treating every disclosure as proof of danger, or allowing discomfort and stigma to obscure a genuine safeguarding concern.

    Careful practice makes room for complexity while keeping safety, accountability, and professional boundaries in view.

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    About ForensicSexology.org
    ForensicSexology.org is an independent, evidence-informed professional resource founded and edited by Simon Wilson, developed in association with the Institute of Psychosexual Psychotherapy. It addresses therapeutic intervention, harmful sexual behaviour, safeguarding, governance, domestic abuse and relationship violence, and public protection with clinical care and without sensationalism.

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  • Sexuality, Intimacy and Coercive Control: A Forensic Sexology Perspective

    Sexuality, Intimacy and Coercive Control: A Forensic Sexology Perspective

    Forensic sexology guide

    Sexuality, Intimacy and Coercive Control

    Domestic abuse can shape sex, intimacy, technology, money, identity and access to help. A specialist response distinguishes patterns of domination and fear from ordinary relationship conflict, keeps safety central and does not make one person responsible for another’s abusive behaviour.

    Relationship therapy must not assume the problem is mutual

    When one person is frightened of the consequences of disagreement, a conventional “both sides” approach can obscure responsibility and increase risk. Communication work is not a substitute for careful assessment of safety, coercion and control.

    Domestic abuse is broader than physical violence

    Under the Domestic Abuse Act 2021, domestic abuse concerns people aged 16 or over who are personally connected. Abusive behaviour may include physical or sexual abuse, threatening behaviour, controlling or coercive behaviour, economic abuse, and psychological or emotional abuse. The statutory definition can include a single incident or a course of conduct.

    The separate criminal offence of controlling or coercive behaviour has additional legal tests. It concerns repeated or continuous behaviour, a serious effect on the victim, and what the person responsible knew or ought to have known. Clinicians should understand this distinction without attempting to determine criminal guilt.

    Coercive control is best understood as a pattern. Individual acts may appear minor when viewed alone, yet together they can restrict another person’s autonomy, daily life and ability to seek help. The pattern may continue or intensify after separation.

    How coercion can enter sexuality and intimacy

    Sexual behaviour does not sit outside the wider relationship. Fear, surveillance, financial dependence, threats, humiliation or isolation may affect whether a person feels able to refuse, negotiate contraception, seek sexual healthcare or decide what happens to intimate information and images.

    Relevant patterns may include:

    • pressure, intimidation or punishment linked to sex or sexual contact;
    • monitoring communications, location, pornography use or sexual-health information;
    • threats to disclose sexual orientation, gender identity, sexual history or intimate images;
    • control of contraception, pregnancy decisions or access to medical care;
    • using money, housing, immigration status, disability or caring needs to limit choice;
    • using separation, children or professional allegations to continue control.

    No single item automatically establishes coercive control. Context, pattern, impact, fear and the consequences of resistance all matter. Equally, relationship status never creates permanent consent, and consent to one act is not consent to another.

    Conflict, distress and abuse are not interchangeable

    Couples can experience intense conflict, poor communication, infidelity, sexual difficulties and incompatible wishes without one person coercively controlling the other. A specialist assessment therefore avoids both minimisation and over-labelling.

    Useful questions concern freedom and consequences: Can each person disagree safely? Can either person end a conversation, leave the room, contact friends, control their own money or decline sexual contact without retaliation? Is one person changing ordinary behaviour because they are afraid of what the other might do? Are monitoring, threats or restrictions becoming more frequent after separation?

    It is the pattern and its effect—not simply the presence of arguments—that helps distinguish abuse from mutual relationship difficulty.

    Why conjoint therapy may be unsafe

    Joint therapy assumes that both people can speak with reasonable freedom and use the session without later retaliation. That assumption may not hold where there is coercive control, stalking, sexual violence or serious intimidation.

    A shared session can reveal what a victim has disclosed, create pressure to retract it, provide new material for monitoring, or frame abuse as a communication problem to which both people contributed equally. It may also help the person causing harm present as cooperative without changing behaviour outside the room.

    This does not mean every difficult relationship is unsuitable for couple therapy. It means therapists should assess safety separately, understand the limits of their competence, and avoid conjoint work when the format itself could increase risk. Specialist domestic-abuse advice may be needed before deciding how—or whether—to proceed.

    A safer clinical response

    • Explain confidentiality and its limits early. Do not promise secrecy that cannot be maintained where safeguarding duties apply.
    • Speak separately where necessary. Ask about fear, restrictions, retaliation, monitoring and what happens after disagreement.
    • Record carefully. Separate what was reported, what was observed, professional interpretation and any action taken.
    • Prioritise immediate safety. Know local safeguarding pathways and specialist domestic-abuse services.
    • Avoid unsafe contact. Do not share appointments, messages, records or referral details in ways that could reveal help-seeking.
    • Use supervision. Decisions about risk, information sharing, boundaries and joint work should not be made in professional isolation.

    Working with a person who is causing harm

    Therapeutic engagement can support responsibility and change, but empathy must not become collusion. Work should remain attentive to patterns of entitlement, minimisation, blame, monitoring and retaliation, while also considering mental health, trauma, substance use, sexual functioning and other clinically relevant factors.

    The safety of current or former partners and children remains a central outcome. A person’s distress about consequences is not the same as accountability for harm. Meaningful change involves recognising impact, respecting boundaries, developing non-abusive ways of managing emotion and conflict, and sustaining different behaviour over time.

    General psychotherapy is not automatically a domestic-abuse perpetrator intervention. Practitioners need appropriate competence, supervision, referral pathways and awareness of specialist standards. The victim or partner should never be made responsible for monitoring progress or supplying the therapist with evidence.

    Diversity and barriers to recognition

    Domestic abuse can affect people of every gender, sexuality, ethnicity, faith, age and social background. Recognition can be harder when services assume heterosexual gender roles, overlook abuse in LGBT+ relationships, misread disability-related dependence, or fail to understand threats involving immigration status, community standing or disclosure of identity.

    Responsive practice considers these realities without stereotyping. It also recognises that some people face greater barriers to specialist help, accessible communication, safe housing or financial independence.

    A coordinated response

    NICE guidance emphasises integrated pathways, specialist advocacy, ongoing risk assessment and multi-agency working. Support for people experiencing abuse and work with people who perpetrate it should be distinct but coordinated, with the safety of victims and children prioritised.

    Information sharing should be necessary, proportionate, secure and explained wherever it is safe to do so. Practitioners should follow current law, professional standards, organisational policy and local safeguarding procedures rather than relying on a single generic rule.

    Help and support in England and Wales

    If someone is in immediate danger, call 999. The GOV.UK domestic-abuse guidance lists confidential services, including the National Domestic Abuse Helpline in England, Live Fear Free in Wales, Men’s Advice Line and Galop. People worried about their own abusive behaviour can contact the Respect Phoneline.

    Find current domestic-abuse support

    Develop specialist forensic practice

    IoPP’s Level 7 Diploma in Forensic Sexology is advanced professional training for qualified therapists and applied psychologists working with sexual behaviour, offending, risk, safeguarding and complex clinical practice.

    Explore the diploma

    Sources and further reading

    Important: This resource provides general information for adults and professionals in England and Wales. It is not emergency, legal, clinical or individual safeguarding advice. Practitioners should follow current law, professional standards, organisational policy and local safeguarding procedures.

  • What Is Forensic Sexology?

    What Is Forensic Sexology?

    Foundational guide

    Sexuality, clinical practice, law and safeguarding

    Forensic sexology brings knowledge about sexuality and sexual behaviour into contexts where questions of harm, consent, offending, risk, treatment, rehabilitation and justice may arise.

    Forensic sexology is best understood as an interdisciplinary field of study and practice. It examines sexuality and sexual behaviour where they intersect with clinical work, the law, safeguarding, criminal justice and research. It can help professionals ask better questions, distinguish concepts that are often confused and respond to complex situations with greater care.

    An important boundary: the term forensic sexology does not, by itself, confer a protected professional status, licence to practise or authority to provide expert evidence. Any clinical assessment, therapy, risk work or court-related opinion must remain within the practitioner’s qualifications, competence, professional registration and instructions.

    Why both words matter

    Sexology

    Sexology provides a broad way of understanding sexuality. It considers biological, psychological, relational, cultural, social, developmental, digital and legal influences rather than reducing sexual behaviour to a single cause.

    Forensic

    The forensic context introduces questions about evidence, law, accountability, harm, risk, safeguarding and professional limits. It requires particular care about what is known, what is inferred and what remains uncertain.

    The World Health Organization’s working framework for sexual health and the World Association for Sexual Health’s Declaration on Sexual Rights both place sexuality within a wide human, relational, social and legal context. A forensic perspective retains that breadth while paying closer attention to situations involving potential or actual harm, offending and justice processes.

    How it differs from neighbouring fields

    Forensic sexology overlaps with several established disciplines, but it should not be treated as a replacement for any of them.

    General sexology Studies human sexuality broadly, including sexual health, identity, relationships, behaviour, culture and rights. A forensic lens focuses more specifically on intersections with harm, law and justice.
    Psychosexual and relationship therapy Provides therapeutic assessment and treatment for sexual and relationship concerns. Work connected with offending or safeguarding may require additional competence, supervision and multidisciplinary coordination.
    Forensic psychology or psychiatry These have distinct professional routes and scopes of practice. In the UK, “forensic psychologist” is a protected title. A forensic sexological perspective may complement appropriately qualified work; it does not create an equivalent qualification.
    Probation and criminal justice practice These services hold statutory and operational responsibilities for assessment, management and rehabilitation. Clinical practitioners may contribute specialist understanding while respecting those responsibilities.

    Questions a forensic sexological perspective may explore

    Depending on the setting and the practitioner’s role, this perspective may help organise questions such as:

    • How do consent, coercion, capacity, harm and legal boundaries relate in this situation?
    • What is the difference between a sexual interest, a fantasy, a behaviour, a clinical difficulty, an offence and a risk factor?
    • How might relationships, attachment, trauma, shame, opportunity, social learning, digital environments or wider culture be relevant?
    • What can be responsibly concluded from the available evidence—and what cannot?
    • What forms of treatment, rehabilitation, supervision, support or referral might be appropriate?
    • How are victims, partners, families and communities affected, and how should their safety and needs remain visible?
    • Which professional, ethical or legal framework governs the work?

    Sexual difficulty is not the same as sexual offending

    Most sexual and relationship difficulties are not forensic matters. A responsible approach avoids treating unusual interests, consensual practices, sexual health concerns or private distress as evidence of offending or dangerousness. The forensic context becomes relevant when there are questions about harm, consent, illegality, safeguarding, risk or justice processes.

    Why an interdisciplinary approach is needed

    Sexual offending and related harms rarely have a single explanation. Effective responses may involve criminal justice professionals, probation, psychology, psychiatry, medicine, psychotherapy, social care, safeguarding services, researchers and specialist voluntary organisations.

    Official guidance from HM Prison and Probation Service and the HM Inspectorate of Probation evidence base emphasises assessment, management, rehabilitation, reintegration and coordinated work. This supports a formulation that considers risk and need while also recognising strengths, responsivity and the possibility of change.

    What this means for different readers

    For the public

    Reliable information can make unfamiliar terminology easier to understand and help people identify an appropriate source of support. It cannot determine guilt, predict an individual’s behaviour or replace personal clinical or legal advice.

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    For clinical professionals

    Qualified therapists and applied psychologists may need specialist knowledge, consultation, supervision or further training. Formal risk assessment, diagnosis and expert opinion require the relevant competence and role.

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    For legal professionals

    A specialist may help clarify psychosexual concepts or treatment questions. Any expert evidence must come from a suitably qualified person who understands their duty to the court and the limits of their expertise.

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    What forensic sexology is not

    • It is not a licence to practise, a protected title or a substitute for professional registration.
    • It does not excuse harm, remove personal responsibility or decide guilt.
    • It should not pathologise consensual sexual diversity.
    • It cannot replace case-specific clinical, safeguarding or legal advice.

    The approach of this resource

    Forensic Sexology is being developed as an independent, organisational resource. Our aim is to support careful thinking across clinical, legal, public and research contexts. We prioritise evidence, ethical practice, transparency about uncertainty, respect for sexual diversity, accountability for harm and realistic approaches to treatment and rehabilitation.

    We do not diagnose public figures, comment on the merits of active cases or present general information as an individual opinion. You can read more about how material is selected and reviewed in our Editorial Standards.

    Continue exploring

    Explore the field through our key themes and research, or learn about specialist professional development through the Institute of Psychosexual Psychotherapy’s Level 7 Diploma in Forensic Sexology.

    References and professional frameworks

    1. World Health Organization: Defining sexual health.
    2. World Association for Sexual Health: Declaration on Sexual Rights.
    3. HM Prison and Probation Service: Management and rehabilitation of people convicted of sexual offences.
    4. HM Inspectorate of Probation: Sexual offending evidence base.
    5. HM Prison and Probation Service: Offending behaviour programmes and interventions.
    6. COSRT: Professional Standards.
    7. Health and Care Professions Council: Professions and protected titles.
    8. Ministry of Justice: Criminal Procedure Rules, Part 19—Expert evidence.

    Review date: August 2026. This article provides general information and is not clinical, safeguarding or legal advice.